Tuesday, May 4, 2010

buy this book...

Your probably thinking... am I at the right blog? No pictures ? More than ten sentences? What happened? :) I promise this long read is worth your time... I promise.

 This book is changing my life. Changing my perspective and changing my attitude. If you would have asked me if I was a thankful person a few weeks ago I quickly would have said yes! But after the first few pages of this book, I realized how far from grateful I am. The book is
"Choosing Gratitude"by Nancy Leigh DeMoss. She is so helpful to highlight scripture after scripture, digging in to what God's word says and teaching what true biblical gratitude really is. I was reading this part yesterday that was so convicting. I never thought of myself as much of a worrier? But recently noticed, It's really something I struggle with. It may not be overt or written all over my face, but so often my heart is not at peace.

I know a lot of women who suffer from a noticeable deficiency of peace. I'm one of them sometimes. I'm not talking about peace that equates to having a day with nothing on the calendar, plopping on the sofa with a cup of hot tea and a good book. Not that this doesn't sound inviting, but let's be honest that's a rare occasion for most of us. The peace I'm talking about doesn't require a mountain cabin or a getaway weekend. It can happen anywhere, even in the most hectic moments and places of your life.

But only because gratitude knows where to look for it. If we were sitting across the table from each other, you could tell me what's stealing your peace right now without having to think hard. You may be grieving a loss that never settles far from your conscious thoughts. You may be crying yourself to sleep at night over a situation over a son or daughter that is beyond your ability to control-a failing marriage, a little one undergoing diagnostic medical tests, perhaps open rebellion against God and against your parenting decisions. Maybe you're facing some health issues of your own, or your income just isn't meeting your monthly expenses, or your church is in turmoil over some hot-button issue.

We know that we can and should pray about these matters. But praying is not all that we can and should do. " Do not be anxious about anything" the apostle Paul wrote. "but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus" (Philippians 4:6-7)

To put it even more simply: In every situation... prayer + thanksgiving = peace

When prayer teams up with gratitude, when we open our eyes wide enough to see God's mercies even in the midst of our pain, and when we exercise faith and we give Him thanks even when we can't see those mercies, He meets us with His indescribable peace. It's a promise.

Oh, we can try it the other way. Without thanksgiving. Author and Bible teacher Beth Moore describes the way most people live, by substituting the familiar phrases from Pilippians 4:6-7 with their polar opposites:

Do not be calm about anything, but in everything, by dwelling on it constantly and feeling picked on by God, with thoughts like" And this is what I get," present your aggravations to everyone you know but Him. And the acid in your stomach, which transcends all milk products will cause you an ulcer, and the doctor bills will cause you a heart attack, and you will lose your mind. (3)

Prayer is vital-but to really experience His peace, we must come to Him with gratitude. Hard gratitude. Costly gratitude. The kind that trusts He is working for our good even in unpleasant circumstances... the kind that garrisons our troubled hearts and minds with His unexplainable peace.

Are you facing one or more chaotic, unsettled situations? Is your soul weary from striving, stress, and strain? There is peace, my friend-God's peace-waiting for you just beyond the doors of deliberate gratitude. But the only way to find it is to go there and see for yourself. God's peace is one of the many blessings that live on the other side of gratitude."
(pages 65-66; Choosing Gratitude"by Nancy Leigh DeMoss 2009)

I want to be a Christian, a wife, a mom, and whatever extra hat :), who joyfully gives thanks in all circumstances, and constantly has the peace of God... wouldn't life be so much sweeter!

Enjoying this read, Cj


Julie Gebhards said...

Thanks Carly! Enjoyed the "long read". Very encouraged!

L a u r a said...

This sounds like an excellent book. I'll definitely have to check it out! Love the Beth Moore "opposite" paragraph too. =)

I remember being taught to structure my basic daily prayer using the word PRAY as a mnemonic, and first on the list is showing gratitude:

P - praise God for all your gifts/blessings
R - repent of all your shortcomings throughout the day
A - ask God your intentions
Y - say YES to God in order to carry out His will for you.

Even with this good structure as a reminder, it seems to be just human nature to slowly allow ourselves to get caught up in worldly things and end up with the opposite of gratitude--expectations. So, it's always great to have something (like this book) to knock ourselves back to the Truth! I think to be truly grateful, we have to humble ourselves...which then naturally softens our hearts and opens us up to allow God to pour in his graces. Peace.

Great post, Carly. Thank you for the resource and for providing us with the gentle reminder of Truth!

“I would maintain that thanks are the highest form of thought, and that gratitude is happiness doubled by wonder.” ~G.K. Chesterton

Cyndi said...

Thank you for sharing this with us I will be heading out to my Christian book store and purchasing this book. I think if we are grateful our children will learn this from watching us. You inspire me every time I read your blogs. Whether it's a recipe,home design or just a word of encouragement. God has blessed you and you bless others. Cyndi

Carly Jean Brannon said...

Thank you for your kind comments, I'm so glad ya'll were encouraged too!

Laura, I was cracking up while reading that opposite quote! Ugh, so true.

Cyndi, you are so right about our children seeing an example of thankfulness in us. May we be parents that exemplify biblical gratitude.